Roman Simon

I'm just losing interest in sharing my thoughts and experiences.

Don't be naive. 2 can be achieved naturally by a very few people and requires 10 years of hard work. 3 is only achieved by using steroids and years of hard work.

When you feel sad, go outside, walk, and talk to new people, anyone.

What positives are you achieving by pushing yourself less, resting more, and becoming a weaker version of yourself?

Not all enemies are enemies. But you perceiving anyone as an enemy makes them your enemy.

Your parents saying "stupid" things to you is just their try to participate and take care of you. Appreciate it, whatever it may be.

The game is this: can she affect you? If she can, you are out.

The only resource that is scarce is time. Selling it for money which is created from nothing is the biggest mistake ever made. One day you will understand this.

People are so hungry that they will eat anything.

"You just need to use human weakness to hook them up and exploit. This is how real wealth is made." Where are you going with all the money you extract? Into the grave. Cool, your coffin will be made of gold. Parasite.

All news from all sources is fake and has an agenda. While you are distracted following meaningless fake stories, real changes happen in the shadows. Continue enjoying your life while you can.

Anyone chanting for war should be sent to fight there.

Every sheep alive praises the farm and condemns the wolves.

Men's looks do not come from genetics. They come from the mindset.

WHY OBEY EMOTIONS? It's amazing how emotions affect some people. For example, a man may be afraid to talk to a woman on the street when he likes her. A mixed cocktail of emotions starts filling his blood — fear, anxiety, uncertainty, worries, and many others. They paralyze him. Physically, there is nothing stopping him from doing what he wants. He could simply walk up to the woman he likes and say something, but he can't. The emotions fully control his physical state. He can't even take a step forward. How did he allow some emotions to control his life that much? Or perhaps a more accurate question is: why hasn't he worked on himself to gain conscious control of his body and his life? The animalistic state is the default. Animals are controlled by emotions, and children are controlled by emotions too. Most likely, he is stuck in a childlike state, which is why emotions fully control his behavior. To mature and take conscious control, you need to work on it. It doesn't always happen naturally. Sometimes we need to deliberately put our minds to this task. You need to build yourself into the person you want to be.

LET GO Letting people go is a very hard and painful process. It is even more painful if we are stuck in a childlike emotional state, because for a child, losing their parents meant death. So we fear it the same way we fear dying. But life is dynamic. Everything changes. People change, and we change too. Our goals change as well. Sometimes it is better to let some people go for the mutual benefit of everyone involved. At first, we may feel devastated, just as children would if their parents left them. But we are not children anymore, and eventually things return to a good state. Yes, we may feel very bad for a while, and that is a normal part of life. Whatever needs to be felt needs to be felt. Avoiding these emotions only makes everything worse. It's the time to move forward.

There is no such thing as a bad car. Any car can be worked on and can become the greatest car ever. You just need to put the work in. You just need to decide to pursue greatness and put the work into it.

FOCUS DEFINES YOUR REALITY When you want to find faults and disadvantages in a specific car, you will find them. If you want to find strengths and advantages, you will find them too. Our minds are very powerful and work selectively. Whatever you focus on will be noticed and reinforced. If you focus on the thought that you are lazy, you will behave like a lazy person. If you focus on the thought that you are great and proactive, that is what will happen. Reality is filtered by our mind, focusing on something like a camera that captures only what comes through a focused lens. Think about who you want to become. Focus on that, and everything will change.

WHY ARE YOU SAD? Whatever you think about yourself or believe about yourself is not necessarily true. You may be biased and in a exhausted emotional state, so you try to paint your image in a negative light. You are not undisciplined, dumb, or lazy. You are just sad right now and behaving in some way. Analyze your life. Recall all the instances when you used your positive side and achieved what you wanted. You have done it. There were times when you were strong, resilient, and intelligent. And now, because you feel sad, you believe that you are a loser. A car with deflated tires does not become a bad car. It just needs some service. You are not what you believe you are or what you think you are. You are what you choose to be. So be honest with yourself. Think about who you want to be and analyze it. You can do it.

MAKING THE RIGHT DECISION Men who are afraid of messing things up will struggle in life. This fear usually comes from childhood, when we were criticized or yelled at for doing things wrong while trying to win acceptance and love by being obedient and good. At that time it felt necessary, because we believed we had no other choice. But now we are adults. That old tactic keeps us trapped in a childlike state. Our thinking, emotions, and behavior remain locked there. We become afraid to act because we might mess things up. We are afraid of feeling emotions because it once felt dangerous. We are afraid to want things. We are afraid to be ourselves. And this constant overthinking about making the right move or decision is eating our brains. Now the situation is even worse. When we were children, we needed the approval of our parents, and we knew exactly what to do to get it. Now there is no single person to please. So we keep trying to be good and do the “right” things for random people, hoping they will accept us — repeating the same pattern we learned in childhood. We become afraid of acting, of making mistakes, of being ineffective. We are afraid to decide. We are afraid to want things. When there is no one to please, we feel lost. This must be turned into an advantage. There is one person you need to please — you. You are living your life, and it is your responsibility to live it the way you want. You cannot know in advance whether something will be right or wrong, effective or ineffective. The only way to find out is to act, observe what happens, feel the consequences, and deal with the outcomes. Without action, you will never know. That is why the only real choice is to do what you genuinely want to do. Whether you think it is good or bad, effective or ineffective does not matter, because certainty does not exist beforehand. When you begin acting on what you truly want, life starts to feel real again. You begin to appreciate yourself. You start respecting yourself. Confidence grows. Competence expands. And step by step, you begin to win in life and feel happier.