Katie ⌁

Phoenix sunset walks with @Ginger GN fam.

Most men with sex addiction are actually templated for true devotion and service. Unwinding the addiction is part of their initiation.

Every man I encounter has the templating within him for masculine service and devotion to the Feminine. If it wasn’t there, he and I wouldn’t cross paths. That I am sure of. This does not mean, however, that he is oriented to it fully. It does not mean, he moves through the world that way. Every single one, in fact, has his own patterns and aspects that are in the way. And each one mirrors my own patterns that are not oriented fully in devotion to Her. Extraction. Transaction. Control. Domination. It is a sometimes painful chasm to hold. I know it well. It feels like a dissonance. A lack of full alignment. A contorting or twisting and trying that comes out funky. The beauty is that She does not judge. She is the most loving and neutral reflection of what is. And it is precisely in Her reflection that we can truly see 👀 This is not about men and women. Although those layers also weave their way into the dynamic. It is about order, in the truest sense of the word. Because order with Her looks nothing like we thought. It is much, much more rich, fruitful, exciting, nourishing and generous than we could have ever imagined. It is Beyond. Which is why we seek it so deeply.

In two hours, a group of really incredible humans is coming together online to not only meet each other, but meet themselves. Because that is what relationship actually does - it is a mirror for us to meet ourselves more deeply. It is an amplifier, a reflector, an integrator and a solidifier. We can do all the work we want with ourselves, but in connection, everything gets bigger. Which is why people shy away from it, reaching for the thing that feels “safer”. How you work with yourself within a connection is a skill, and one that can drastically impact the quality of your life. To be able to slow down time and watch what your body does and how you truly feel in front of someone. To notice where you close and open or wiggle out of a intimate moment. It is all a practice. And I’ve got a place for you to do it. There is still time to grab your ticket for today’s REUNION Salon. We begin at 1pm EST. Trust the curiosity inside of you and say yes to the unknown. We’re going to create magic and we’re going to do it together. Exactly as we are. Dropping the link in the comments.

Men often need a real life, 3D example of something to believe it’s really possible. I’ve seen this over and over and over. Women can experience something in the field, and know it to be true and possible - a different kind of knowing. One of the MOST POTENT parts of bringing men and women together in an online experience centered around genuine, no bullshit connection, is that I literally watch it rewire men’s ideas of women, relationship and what is actually not only possible, but probable for them in the future. I have incredible women in my field. Like… top notch. So men, if you’re wanting to experience them and let them actually see you, come on Saturday to the REUNION Salon. It will change your life. https://www.katieloconnor.com/reunion-salon

In your reflection, I become.  This is something that landed for me a couple years ago and I’ve watched the truth of this through all types of experiences and relationships. The moments when your essence is reflected back in the person in front of you. Whether it’s the way their body shifts, the words they say, the choices they then make or the energy you feel. You see a piece of yourself come alive in them.  And you get bigger.  A little fractal of your transcendental and cosmic nature becomes matter.  You see yourself a little bit more clearly.  And as you do, you feel it.  The truth. That you are not just the idea of yourself that you have. You have irrefutable evidence in front of you of something more.  Your whole life, a slow piecing together - a crafting of the multicolored, multi-textured creation of you, expressed through every person you touch.  What does the chemistry of your essence and someone else’s actually produce?  How do your particular electrons dance together?  And what part of you is awakened through the connection?  This upcoming Saturday, February 28th, from 1pm-3:30pm EST, I want to invite you to join me for an experience centered around precisely this.  I am hosting an online salon to bring men and women together in an intimate, connected and fun way, I’m taking some of my favourite and most impactful REUNION exercises and combining them with a little dinner party pizazz! Tickets are $33 per person or $55 for a pair. Men, women, singles and couples invited. Learn more and register here: https://www.katieloconnor.com/reunion-salon

An evolution.

Coming very soon…

Men, what aspect of you do you feel most women fail to see? And what aspect of you do you hope they don’t see?

I just had a dream that told me instead of Gold being an object that should be bought and sold, it is actually the pro forma (I believe that was the Latin word in the dream) of all of life. As in it is simply a documentation of, vs being the thing itself. I woke up right when that came in and so I’m kind of foggy but if anyone wants to expand on this or if there’s something here, let me know. I was out DEEP in a nap.

I originally posted this to Substack but I feel alignment with some of the men here too. If you feel a curiosity, send me a DM. 📝 8e173bf7…

I am opening space to work with two very specific men and I have a feeling they exist in my Substack community.  As I have been doing sessions with men over the last year+, I’ve watched how my system interacts with theirs and there is a very particular way the medicine moves. My work with men is twofold. 1- My system reflects and puts language to what is in their system and their life in a way that they can more easily see and understand it. 2- My energy and guidance helps attune their bodies to the energy alive in them in a way that gives them more literacy and influence over their experience in the world.  This is the work of a woman.  I’ve also noticed my work with men moves through them faster than my female clients, simply because of the male design. Men can move energy into aligned action relatively quickly. Now, of course every person is different, but when the men are open to my sight and guidance, it can be quick. A woman’s sight is energy efficient. We can sense and reflect things that would take a man a considerable amount of resources to arrive at himself. It is not better, it is simply a way we can compliment is own intelligence.  So, I am making a direct invitation to the men in my world here who feel resonance with my energy and my writing. You do not need to understand it all. It probably will not feel like a super rational choice. Because it will be your body/ soul responding over your logical mind. Which brings me to the type of man that is a good fit for this work:  -You spend a lot of time in your head but you are clear that you have a very sensitive energetic body. You just aren’t comfortable feeling it often.  - You are open to Feminine sight and reflection. -You are navigating a relational or personal shift in your life and are looking at yourself and your patterns deeply. These are the key ones, and honestly, if you feel a natural interest/ curiosity or pull to working with me, I always say trust that. We can discuss and I will let you know if I feel a resonance and you can feel yourself deeper too.  To get a taste of the work, I am offering initial sessions for $122 so let me know if you want to book one in and we can move from there. 

I really like this. 📝 18512314…

This is how I feel spending time with soulmate women who I hang out with in the ethers but hadn’t met in person. They also make me wear my sexy dressy things 🥰 @Ginger

Always giving me a little extra love and taking what I no longer need 🥰 📝 c6419c9a…

There is a distinct energetic difference between a man pleasuring you because he gets off seeing you get off. And a man pleasuring you because he enjoys your body and the process. An attuned woman can feel the slight transactionality of the former. And before the men jump at me in the comments, I am not saying being turned on by her being turned on is wrong or shouldn’t happen. It’s beautiful and hot. But can you feel the slight difference between the two?

Contorting our expression in the name of gentleness and femininity may be one of the greatest tropes a woman can fall for.

Welcoming a new Nostrich (yes Ginger, this is what we’re called over here 😂) to the scene! If you enjoy illusion slaying, truth serving and the celebration of Life and Union, you’ll want to follow her. Let’s give her a warm welcome 🥰🥰 📝 977383aa…

I couldn’t put all the words needed for this magical story into just a note so I wrote a whole article. I am still soaking in the magic of receiving my painting from @🟠 isolabellart It is not just a painting. It is so much more. Read along here: nostr:naddr1qqgxvmmvd3hhwtt5dpjj6mtpva5kxqgkwaehxw309aex2mrp0yh8qunfd4skctnwv46qyg8p2qcp370tcvjd9u5npzezzj49ve4q9ym09e2jgzute3g2s74d55psgqqqw4rsw3c7pe

Tonight I dance for the men. The ones who are facing the darkness. Inside and out. Who are feeling the squeeze. The call. The invitation. Tonight I felt my heart raw from the men in my life who are in the arena. Men who must battle alone. Only accompanied by my prayers and God. Men who I love. In all the ways a woman can. And so, as they are carved, one day at a time Tasked with what is only theirs to meet, I dance for them.