"If you spoke to an ancient greek and asked 'What is love and where is the role of criticism?', they would say 'Love is a process of education. Is the education of emotions, and lovers should of course be able to call each other up for things that they don't spot in one another, and they should be trying to develop into the best version of themselves rather than stay stuck in the admiration for who they are today. The whole process should be dynamic, become who you could be, not worship who you happen to be right now.'"
- Alain de Botton