yeah, i'm 50 in a couple weeks and when a local grandpa visited and was showing me local ladies who looked past their baby capability days i'm like nah. i'd rather it be under 40 for that reason. anywhere around there is ok tho, since if she's not chasing girl boss jobs and doomscrolling instagram and not paying attention to the world around me she's not an option anyway, even if by some miracle that combination appeared with interest in marriage and children.