I haven't dated in a long time. I'd say back then it was more accidental versus strategic plays. For me it was more ebbs and flows, not trying, and seeing how things would work out.
I wish lol. Didn’t start writing songs early enough. Probably a good thing.
The songs are archive of stories not phases. I store them as time capsules, my state of mind and phase determine what kind of songs I could come up with for that specific story. Does it make sense?