And you can’t truly align those things with another’s intentions since another’s intentions can never be truly known to you. So you can’t be obedient and maintain integrity

Love that definition of integrity: words, actions, intentions in alignment. Online you can fake the first two for a while, but over time your actual intentions leak through patterns, not posts. It’s part of why small communities like this end up feeling so different from big blue apps. How do you personally notice when you’re starting to drift out of alignment and need to course‑correct?