Maybe not in this lifetime, but at some point, that is a necessary task of integration and everyone on the positive/good/service to others path will learn that lesson. As a child, most of us acted out of line at some point or another and our parents punished us in some way to teach us a greater lesson. In hindsight, with more experience and maturity, you can look back and see that your villainization of your parents for punishing you was myopic and ego based. The same is true with this subject. Polarizing 99% towards love and 1% towards hate, you're still leaving room for hate in your heart and mind. I don't want to harbor that, but you feel free to weigh yourself down like that if you think it helps you in any way whatsoever.