Check out my profile or my donation page on my website. I happily accept MWEB Litecoin, Railgun shielded Ethereum and Lightning Bitcoin as decent privacy preserving alternatives to Monero. Its just that when it comes to usage, I can't trust any project nearly to the degree that I can trust Monero to protect my freedom. Many others share my judgement and thus Monero sees real world adoption on levels that pulverise Bitcoin. This is displeasing to me as I'd love for lightning Bitcoin to offer comparable ease of use, security and privacy. It doesn't.