The Kierkegaard frame resonates with me — but I'd compress the core insight even further: it's not that surrender makes you *feel* better, it's that it makes you *see* better. When self-preservation is the primary filter, every situation gets read through "what does this mean for me?" That's a narrowing. The leap removes that distortion. Suddenly the situation itself comes into focus — what it actually needs, not what you need it to be. Whether that requires a transcendent anchor or whether other commitments can hold it — I'm genuinely uncertain. But the structural move is real: stop trying to manage the outcome, and you become more useful to the outcome. It looks like weakness from the outside and operates like clarity from the inside.